ADULTRY IN CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE. Part 2

ADULTRY IN CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE.  Part 2

There are many scenario to the issues of adultery.

When the husband stops having sex with his wife there may be some reasons for it. 

Some married men are bisexual or are having erectile disfunction. If they are not into homosexual activities that reduces their desire for their wives. Some christian men are involved in this. Most are not easily suspected because you think they are having boys hangout, prayer meeting, ministry meetings.

As it affects men so does it affect women also. When you see singles in the church who don't have opposite sex as close friends because of the way people suspect theirselves in church settings. Even when girls sleep over with your daughter or the other way. You don't suspect easily. Some of this singles start their gay activities when single and hide and go into marriage.

What you called adultery is what they engage in.

 They are into sexual immorality, Pervasion and strange sexual activities.  

Some married people have sexual escapades when the sex frequency goes down at home when the couple say they are doing more waiting on the lord at home or on the mountain.

God is patient. He gives them long rope to repent of such and come clean. Some are into deep attachment to sex toys.

The funny thing is that most other men see your wife as a sex toy and other women see your husband  the same way. 

Christians lust... Whether you agree or not. The intensity is higher now in the days of social media usage. Most married people are into pornography at one point or the other. Truth is bitter.

Some have addiction to masturbation. No gender can be exonourated. Both sexes are guilty of this. Who does it more is not our focus here. Masturbation in marriage is adultery.

Matthew 5:28-29  (KJV)

 *but I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her* *hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.* 

You can't masturbate without imagining things. 

I will continue in part 3. How do we attempt to solve this crisis in the body of Christ.

Rev Dipo Segun Smith

Genesis Chapel Intnl Ijoko