IF YOU DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOUR WIFE FOR A YEAR OR MORE, WHAT HAPPENS? -Part 1

IF YOU DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOUR WIFE FOR A YEAR OR MORE, WHAT HAPPENS? -Part 1

This issue has cropped up in many christian marriages.

 And so many outcomes had been experienced. 

I am writing today to expose the devil's scheme on christian marriages. One of the major reasons why men stop having sex with their wives are as follows:

1. Chronic erectile disfunction

2. Shrinking of penis

3. Quick ejaculation etc

This phenomenon affect the psyche of men to the point that it affects their confidence in their self.

The women makes it obvious when the complain about the sexual inadequate sexual satisfaction the derive from such activities in their marriage.

SEX HAS NO RELIGION

What do I mean that sex had no religion? 

The fact is that sex is biological situation that makes animals feel the need for touch and intercourse. This intercourse has led to people of different sexes having deep attachment to one another or group of people.

That is why today we have marriage among people of different sexes and same sex.

Why did I go this far to explain?. 

A lot of people are having issues that they do not understand. When pastors keep quiet because they are ashamed. 

 *1 Corinthians 7:3-6* 

 *3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and* *likewise the wife to her husband* . 

 *4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her* *husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over* *his own body but yields it to his wife.* 

 *5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for* *a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then* *come together again so that Satan will not tempt you* *because of your lack of self-control.* 

 *6 I say this as a concession, not as a command."* 

That's why the bible is not shy to discuse sex verbatim here.

It's not about prayers or faith. It's about action

So if a man refuse to have intercourse with his wife several things will play out. I will just take one of it. 

That is the start of discontent and silent conflict of commitment. The woman begins to escalate this gap through initial complains, bust of anger, uncooperative attitudes etc. This has a wider implication to the peace and progress of that marriage and family.

In the next part I will be looking at some crafty solutions from the angle of masturbation, lesbianism, adultery etc.

Dipo Segun Smith

SCSE CEO

July 2025

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